When The Heart Can't Express

Realizing That You Don't Need Certain People , There's a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it's not giving up, it's realizing that you don't need certain people and their crap.

There are always going to be certain people within our lives that will slow us down from our forward progression if we choose to allow them to do so. Instead of trying to fix everything the way that they want it to be in life, that they have to work with life the way that it is, and even work with variables that they would rather not work with.

It is not about giving up on people, but it is more about being able to tell the difference between giving up and moving on, and stopping others from preventing their own lives to blossom. As the quote states there is a point in many people's lives that they must realize that instead of chasing the ones who ignore them, that they must love the ones who love them completely. Not everything in life is for you, and not every situation is for you to fix, sometimes you must let things be, move on, and learn how to let go.

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It is not about where you begin but where you END

There’s no person in the Dunya who is capable of handling every punch that is thrown at them. We aren’t made that way. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble & fall. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly overcome problems. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, & solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.


The hereafter is your destination and serves as a reminder that you should live in this world with right actions and speech. You should enjoy this life, but you should never forget your ultimate destination. Accept the fact that this life is short and you don't know when its goign to end. Start living for Allah by worshiping him and doing good deeds. I promise, you will enjoy this life with a sense of purpose, and you will seek the hereafter with right actions and speech In Sha Allah!

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Open Your Mind And Remind Yourself

“May Allah forgive me of my sins. The outward and the inward. The intentional and the unintentional. May Allah forgive me for being a repeat offender, sinning the same sin over and over again. May Allah forgive me for being heedless. For being ignorant. For being arrogant, ungrateful, inpatient. More importantly, May Allah forgive me for not seeking forgiveness for all the sins I have committed.

It's Okay Not To Be Perfect

It is important to remind ourselves that no matter what, not everything in our lives will always be as perfect as we may desire. In fact, the only thing perfect about man is that he is able to notice his own imperfections. Striving to live life perfectly is something that is utterly impossible to obtain, instead one should focus on living his or her best life.

Living your best life isn't about trying to be perfect, it is about a person living as who they are at heart, committing mistakes, and learning from these mistakes in order to produce more victories in life than losses. Not every championship has a perfect regular season, not every president had the best grades in grade school, and not every thriving business has always been a thriving business. It is okay to not be perfect, as long as you are always working on being better.

Remind yourself that it's okay not to be perfect.

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Thank You For Everything

“Nothing will weigh more heavily in the balance of the believing servant on the Day of Resurrection than a good attitude towards others. Verily Allah hates those who utter vile words and obscene speech.”

Thank you Allah for everything you gave me, for everything you didn’t give me, for everything you protected me from- that which I know and that which I’m not even aware of, thank you for blessings that I didn’t even realize were blessings, thank you from guidance when I felt like I was slipping, and thank you for every thing else because no matter how many things I try to list, at the end of the day, I can’t even come close to thanking you enough.

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I Don't Wanna Know , I Don't Wanna See

I'll go ahead and pour myself a drink
I really couldn't care less what you think
Well I don't have to listen now
Live this day down

If I can't feel a thing You might as well save your goodbyes
We can give this train wreck one last ride
If I don't make things right
I'll tell you one last time

I don't wanna know it's over , So save your goodbye kiss
I don't wanna know it's over , Cause ignorance is bliss
I can hardly see What's in front of me
Cause the vodka's running on empty
I can't stay sober, If it's over

I woke up with my heartbeat in my head
I reached for the bottle by the bed
I saw your side was not slept in
Cold sheets again

Remind me of what you said
We need to take a break for a while
It's been so long since I smiled

Don’t Tell Me, I Don’t Want to Know

UNLESS you are my best friend or my husband, I don’t need to know the macabre symptoms of your gastrointestinal virus. I don’t need to know about how much candy anyone, other than me, has eaten.

There are things I’d rather just not know about you.

Yet I, like most people, have become inundated with Too Much Information about the people I know and the people I wish I didn’t know but am now acquainted with. It’s as if we’re all trapped at a permanent reunion with everyone we ever bumped into at a street fair or waved to mistakenly in the cafeteria.

“The entire world has become this Dickensian series in which you are not visited by three ghosts but by eight million ghosts,” said Sloane Crosley, author of “How Did You Get This Number.” “I feel as if I see things about people that I don’t necessarily want to see, and then it’s lodged like a piece of corn in my subconscious.”

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Go ahead now

Honesty, Humor, Friendliness, Confidence, Integrity, Persistence, Humility, Goal Setter, Decisive, Hard Worker, Learner, Positive Mental Attitude, Compassionate, Disciplined, Dedicated, Faithful, Dependable, Knowledgeable, Communicator, Loving, Enthusiastic, Motivated, Patient, Loyal, Organized, Good Listener, Empathetic, Self-Respect, Common Sense, and Character.

Go ahead now..... Look yourself in the mirror
and claim these qualities!
Do it for several weeks and you’ll notice a change in your life.

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Islamic Blessing Quotes

When some blessings come to you have a faith and believe that all will be fine

When you wish someone joy, you wish them peace, love, prosperity, happiness…all the good things.

God will not permit any troubles to come upon us, unless He has a specific plan by which great blessing can come out of the difficulty

Blessed is he who has learned to admire but not envy, to follow but not imitate, to praise but not flatter, and to lead but not manipulate.

Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play, and you will finally be able to move forward the life that God intended for you with grace, strength, courage, and confidence

Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings. And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it. You must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it.

There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction. I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body and life and money and energy with. I can select what I can read and eat and study. I can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life-whether I will see them as curses or opportunities. I can choose my words and the tone of voice in which I speak to others. And most of all, I can choose my thoughts.

God disguised as myriad things, and playing a game of tag has kissed you and said, "You're it. I mean you're really it. Now it does not matter what you believe or feel. For something wonderful, something major-league wonderful, is someday going to happen."

Blessed are the single-hearted, for they shall enjoy much peace. If you refuse to be hurried and pressed, if you stay your soul on God, nothing can keep you from that clearness of spirit which is life and peace. In that stillness you will know what His will is.

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My heart is soft, so don’t break it

I have taken your hand hoping that you will treat me like a princess. My heart is soft, so don’t break it with harsh words.

As you know women are made of irregular rib, I might not be perfect.

Don’t let me as I’m because I might become a loser. And also don’t try to make me

erect at once because I might break. Try to handle me smoothly Insha Allah I’ll be ok.

As you are my better half, always try to be better In sha Allah, that will give me the impression that you are the best husband in the world. Don’t blame me for my small mistakes. Forget them and forgive me. If you see any mistakes in me, please don’t point out them in front others. Make me recognize them with kind words.

Don’t describe about other ladies with me, because that might make me envy. Compliment me if I do anything that pleases you. If I want to talk to you please listen them carefully. That will give me an impression that you are there to care for me.

Some times I might lost my patience and I might turn wild, at that times kindly make me to recognize that I was wrong. If I demand you for little things, try to fulfill them if you can. If you can’t, explain me kindly. In sha Allah I will understand.

Understand me when no one does. That will give me hope in life. At least spend some hours to know how I feel.

In short be a mother when I’m sick.

Be father when I’m in need.

Be a brother when I want to share.

Be a best friend when I want to talk.

Hold my hands and take me in the path of Jannah! In sha Allah!

Let’s live as an exemplary couple, as another Muhammedh (sal) and Kadheeja (Rali).

And let us live as husband and wife even in Jannathul Firdous In sha Allah.

-Your future wife-

With lots and lots of love!!!

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Music in Islam

What is your opinion of Music in Islam?

I personally don't think that Music is forbidden, if its contents are pure and get you closer to Allah. Whats forbidden is evil music with bad message and propaganda. If the kind of music make you neglect your duties towards Allah and your self and family or society, then it is better to stay away from that. If the contents encourage you to commit haram (Forbidden/Not Allowed actions), or those lyrics glorifies haram actions then dont listen that.

The below verse is commonly quoted and misinterpreted to say that music is haram. There is no verse in the Qur'an that prohibits music.

And of mankind is he who purchases idle talks to mislead (men) from the Path of Allah without knowledge, and takes it by way of mockery. For such there will be a humiliating torment. [Qur'an 31:6]

This verse, specifically the words "Idle Talks" do not refer to music, it refers to ignorance and mockery from ignorant people who gossip and pride themselves without knowing anything.

Please state your opinions and respect everyone's interpretation.

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The Day We Get Married

As women, the day we get married our order of priority and obedience changes. We used to be obedient to Allah, subhanallana wa taala, and our parents. After marriage, we are obedient to our Allah, subhaana wa taala, and our husbands. Our good company is best rewarded with our husbands. But for our husbands, it does not change. His obedience and after Allah, azza wa jal, is to his mother, then his father, and then his wife.

It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: A man came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, “O Messenger of Allaah, who among people is most deserving of my good company?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Then your father.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5626; Muslim, 2548)

Sisters, rake in the rewards by encouraging your husband to fulfill his mother's rights! Encourage your husband to spend time with his mother. Encourage your husband to call her often, to visit her, take her gifts, thank her, show his love and appreciation. And when he is doing well by his mother, encourage him towards his father... but not in equal measure. You will gain rewards from your intention, from your husbands good actions, from your husband's mother's pleasure, from your husband's father's pleasure, from enjoining the good, and being a strong support to your fellow Muslims.

May Allah, the One who opens hearts, open our hearts and minds to all the chances of reward that are available to us and within our influence - ameen.

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Like a shadow

This dunya (world) is like a shadow, run after it and you will never be able to catch it, turn your back against it and it has no choice but to follow you - Ibn al-Qayyim

Be thankful for the bad things in life, for they opened your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before. Be thankful to Allah, for he has been guiding you all along. Always be thankful to Allah, because you have much to be thankful for..!

If Allah blesses you with knowledge, you are required to shared it with everyone. Remember, Allah does not bless anybody with knowledge, he blesses those who are worthy and honest. This very blessing can be a test from Allah s.w.t. Take a minute to think of why you know some things that others don't. Is that message just for you, or for all humanity. If the answer is for all humanity, you are under Allah's obligation. You must share it with everyone, In Sha Allah!

O my Lord! Open the ears of our hearts for Your remembrance And keep us in the world on the destinations of your blessings.

Ya Allah! make us to fear you forever so much so that we get to meet You, and make the piety our provisions for journey, and to Your obedience be our efforts get served, And on You we are confide and have trust, and give an end to our lives with fortune and pleasure.

Ameen Ya Allah.

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Berlakunya Sunnah Allah

Sesungguhnya Allah menahan langit dan bumi supaya jangan lenyap; dan sungguh jika keduanya akan lenyap tidak ada seorangpun yang dapat menahan keduanya selain Allah. Sesungguhnya Dia adalah Maha Penyantun lagi Maha Pengampun.

Dan mereka bersumpah dengan nama Allah dengan sekuat-kuat sumpah; sesungguhnya jika datang kepada mereka seorang pemberi peringatan, niscaya mereka akan lebih mendapat petunjuk dari salah satu umat-umat yang lain. Tatkala datang kepada mereka pemberi peringatan, maka kedatangannya itu tidak menambah kepada mereka, kecuali jauhnya mereka dari kebenaran,

karena kesombongan mereka di muka bumi dan karena rencana mereka yang jahat. Rencana yang jahat itu tidak akan menimpa selain orang yang merencanakannya sendiri. Tiadalah yang mereka nanti-nantikan melainkan berlakunya sunnah Allah yang telah berlaku kepada orang-orang yang terdahulu. Maka sekali-kali kamu tidak akan mendapat penggantian bagi sunnah Allah, dan sekali-kali tidak pula akan menemui penyimpangan bagi sunnah Allah itu. 

Dan apakah mereka tidak berjalan di muka bumi, lalu melihat bagaimana kesudahan orang-orang yang sebelum mereka, sedangkan orang-orang itu adalah lebih besar kekuatannya dari mereka? Dan tiada sesuatupun yang dapat melemahkan Allah baik di langit maupun di bumi. Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Mengetahui lagi Maha Kuasa.

Dan kalau sekiranya Allah menyiksa manusia disebabkan usahanya, niscaya Dia tidak akan meninggalkan di atas permukaan bumi suatu mahluk yang melatapun akan tetapi Allah menangguhkan penyiksaan mereka, sampai waktu yang tertentu; maka apabila datang ajal mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah adalah Maha Melihat keadaan hamba-hamba-Nya

Faathir : 38 - 45

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My Name Is Khan

My Name Is Khan, sering disebut sebagai MNIK, adalah 2010 Hindi film drama India disutradarai oleh Karan Johar, dengan skenario oleh Shibani Bathija, diproduksi oleh Yash Hiroo Johar dan Gauri Khan, dan dibintangi Shahrukh Khan dan Kajol, Film ini bersama-sama diproduksi oleh Dharma Productions dan Red Chillies Entertainment dan didistribusikan oleh FOX Bintang Entertainment, yang membeli hak film untuk sejumlah INR100 crore (US $ 22 juta), sehingga film Bollywood yang paling mahal dari 2010. Itu juga merupakan buyover tertinggi untuk setiap film India, melebihi rekor Ghajini dari INR90 crore (US $ 19.8 juta) Sebelum Dirilis, film yang dihasilkan banyak publisitas untuk dirinya sendiri karena tiga alasan utama: pertama, kontroversi politik beberapa sekitarnya film dan aktor utama nya, kedua, kehadiran Khan dalam film (dia terakhir terlihat pada aktor terkemuka peran pada Desember 2008, ketika Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi dirilis), dan ketiga, kembali unision dari "pasangan emas" Khan dan Kajol, yang terakhir kali tampil bersama dalam film Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham pada tahun 2001. My Name is Khan debutnya di Abu Dhabi, UEA, pada 10 Februari 2010. Ini perdana global di bioskop pada 12 Februari 2010. Hal itu juga diputar sebagai bagian dari seleksi resmi Berlin ke-60 International Film Festival bulan yang sama.

Setelah dirilis, film ini memecahkan rekor box office banyak. My Name is Khan adalah paling sukses film Bollywood di luar negeri pada waktu itu, yang kemudian disusul oleh 3 idiots. Dalam waktu empat minggu, film ini melintasi INR70 crore (US $ 15.400.000) tanda di India dan menjadi film pertama 2010 untuk melakukannya. Di pasar luar negeri, film CLASSIC INR110.34 crore (US $ 24.270.000). My Name is Khan saat ini yang tertinggi keenam terlaris Bollywood film dengan kotor seluruh dunia 200 crores. Film ini dirilis di India pada DVD pada tanggal 28 April 2010. Blu-ray di India, ditambah sebuah rilis di seluruh dunia DVD diikuti pada tanggal 10 Agustus 2010.

Doa Dhuha

muslim prayer for dhuha

اَللّهُمَّ اِنَّ الضُّحَاءَ ضُحَاءُكَ وَالْبَهَاءَ بَهَائُكَ وَالْجَمَالَ جَمَالُكَ وَالْقُوَّةَ قُوَّتُكَ وَالْقُدْرَةَ قُدْرَتُكَ وَالْعِصْمَةَ عِصْمَتُكَ اَللّهُمَّ اِنْ كَانَ رِزْقِى فِى السَّمَاءِ فَاَنْزِلْهُ وَاِنْ كَانَ فِى اْلاَرْضِ فَاَخْرِجْهُ وَاِنْ كَانَ مُعَسِّرًا فَيَسِّرْهُ وَاِنْ كَانَ حَرَامًا فَطَهِّرْهُ وَاِنْ كَانَ بَعِيْدًا فَقَرِّبْهُ بِحَقِّ ضُحَائِكَ وَبَهَائِكَ وَجَمَالِكَ وَقُوَّتِكَ وَقُدْرَتِكَ اَتِنِى مَااَتَيْتَ عِبَادَكَ الصَّالِحِيْنَ

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Showing love to someone

Don't force yourself to have space in a person's life that doesnt recognize your worth. Instead use the time and energy that you want to dedicate to people of this nature in an effort to better yourself , They may genuinely like or love you, but we must all remember that showing love to someone is more than just telling them it every once in a while.

Always respect those who have to be in your life, those who see your potential are those who will probably be of most help and most love to you during life's .

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Blessing In the hand of god

Blessing is in The hands of god Allah The Almighty ,

Allâh! Lâ ilâha illa Huwa (none has the Right to be worshipped but He), the ever living, the one who sustains and protects All that exists. neither slumber, nor sleep overtake Him. to Him belongs whatever is In the heavens and whatever is on earth. who is He that can intercede with Him except with his Permission? He knows what happens to them (his creatures) In This world, and what will happen to them In the Hereafter . and they will never compass anything of his knowledge except that which He wills. his Kursî extends over the heavens and the earth, and He feels no fatigue In guarding and preserving them. and He is the Most High, the Most Great. [This Verse 2:255 is called Ayat-ul-Kursî.]

"The best of people are those that bring most benefit to the rest of mankind”

blessing quotes

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allahu akbar

Allâh it is He who has subjected to You the sea, that ships may sail through it by his Command, and that You may seek of his Bounty, and that You may be thankful / Grateful

"Say: He is Allah, the one and Only; Allah, the Eternal, Absolute; He begetteth not, nor is He begotten; and there is none like unto Him"

Allahu Akbar

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Bleessing Quotes

I will seek knowledge until I enter the grave. I believe that there are many paths to the same place, and that is a belief that there is a higher power, a belief that we are connected as a people."

Indeed the least that is binding upon the recipient of favor is that it not be used to disobey its Bestower. Indeed blessings are attained through gratitude and gratitude is related to increase and these two are linked so that increase from Allah does not diminish until gratitude from the servant diminishes.

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Islamic Blessing Quotes

To the soul that is suffering from difficulties and hardships, to the person that is unguided, to the child that doesn't have parents, to the people who lack freedom, to the heart that needs love, to the body that needs cure, to the family that lacks shelter, to the people who lack food and water, to those who passed away, I pray to Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala for you. I pray that Allah has mercy on each one of you, that he forgives you, and that he bless you with the best of this world, and paradise in the hereafter. I pray to Allah because one day I'm going to need a prayer for myself. I pray because I'm a Muslim, and it is my duty to help all creation. I pray because its gratitude to the creator. I pray because my heart yearns to speak to Allah. I pray because I love Allah and his creation. I pray because tomorrow I may not.

"The most naive thing in my eyes is to linger in sin, with no regrets, hoping for a far off pardon and to come closer to Allah without doing anything, and waiting for the harvest of Jannah (Paradise) while planting the seeds of hellfire, and waiting for reward without performing any deeds."

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