Open Your Mind And Remind Yourself

“May Allah forgive me of my sins. The outward and the inward. The intentional and the unintentional. May Allah forgive me for being a repeat offender, sinning the same sin over and over again. May Allah forgive me for being heedless. For being ignorant. For being arrogant, ungrateful, inpatient. More importantly, May Allah forgive me for not seeking forgiveness for all the sins I have committed.

It's Okay Not To Be Perfect

It is important to remind ourselves that no matter what, not everything in our lives will always be as perfect as we may desire. In fact, the only thing perfect about man is that he is able to notice his own imperfections. Striving to live life perfectly is something that is utterly impossible to obtain, instead one should focus on living his or her best life.

Living your best life isn't about trying to be perfect, it is about a person living as who they are at heart, committing mistakes, and learning from these mistakes in order to produce more victories in life than losses. Not every championship has a perfect regular season, not every president had the best grades in grade school, and not every thriving business has always been a thriving business. It is okay to not be perfect, as long as you are always working on being better.

Remind yourself that it's okay not to be perfect.

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Don't Break My Heart Again And Again

You shoot me down in flames, you put me down a lot
I'm giving you my heart , go and take it
please be carefull , not to break it
just remember it's the only one I've got

So.... don't break my heart

you make me laugh a lot and buy me silly things
I'd rather be with you than anyone else
but if you make me mad you wish that you had not

don't break my heart

where are the roses and whispered sighs
where are the compliments and dreaming eyes
it doesn't matter you see I know your loving
will basically never die

don't break my heart

Please ....... don't break my heart

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Thank You For Everything

“Nothing will weigh more heavily in the balance of the believing servant on the Day of Resurrection than a good attitude towards others. Verily Allah hates those who utter vile words and obscene speech.”

Thank you Allah for everything you gave me, for everything you didn’t give me, for everything you protected me from- that which I know and that which I’m not even aware of, thank you for blessings that I didn’t even realize were blessings, thank you from guidance when I felt like I was slipping, and thank you for every thing else because no matter how many things I try to list, at the end of the day, I can’t even come close to thanking you enough.

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I Don't Wanna Know , I Don't Wanna See

I'll go ahead and pour myself a drink
I really couldn't care less what you think
Well I don't have to listen now
Live this day down

If I can't feel a thing You might as well save your goodbyes
We can give this train wreck one last ride
If I don't make things right
I'll tell you one last time

I don't wanna know it's over , So save your goodbye kiss
I don't wanna know it's over , Cause ignorance is bliss
I can hardly see What's in front of me
Cause the vodka's running on empty
I can't stay sober, If it's over

I woke up with my heartbeat in my head
I reached for the bottle by the bed
I saw your side was not slept in
Cold sheets again

Remind me of what you said
We need to take a break for a while
It's been so long since I smiled

Don’t Tell Me, I Don’t Want to Know

UNLESS you are my best friend or my husband, I don’t need to know the macabre symptoms of your gastrointestinal virus. I don’t need to know about how much candy anyone, other than me, has eaten.

There are things I’d rather just not know about you.

Yet I, like most people, have become inundated with Too Much Information about the people I know and the people I wish I didn’t know but am now acquainted with. It’s as if we’re all trapped at a permanent reunion with everyone we ever bumped into at a street fair or waved to mistakenly in the cafeteria.

“The entire world has become this Dickensian series in which you are not visited by three ghosts but by eight million ghosts,” said Sloane Crosley, author of “How Did You Get This Number.” “I feel as if I see things about people that I don’t necessarily want to see, and then it’s lodged like a piece of corn in my subconscious.”

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Terangilah hati kami

Sungguh Berat derap langkah perjalanan untuk bisa sampai ke altar suci Mu ,

sungguh hijab hijab syahwat dan kelalaian telah menutupi pandangan kami

sungguh Kesombongan dan kebanggaan telah membuat kami Bertambah angkuh dan melupakan Mu

Sungguh tabir ke-egoisan dan perilaku syaithan menjadikan qalbu kami penuh dengan kelalaian dan melupakan keagungan - Mu

Sungguh jalan akherat sangatlah licin dan terjal sehingga kami seringkali terjatuh dan terpeleset tiada henti. sementara jerat jaring laba-laba pikiran yang tak berarti membuat kami terus berada dalam kebingungan yang mengenaskan

Terangilah hati kami ya Allaah , sempurnakanlah cahaya kami , dengan cahaya Mu

sehingga pandangan qalbu ini dapat menembus hijab cahaya dan sampai kepada Sumber keagungan Mu

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Al Quran dan Sunnah

Dahsyatnya Al Quran dan Sunnah

Diantara hujjah dalil , akal dan realitas kehidupan ~.~
Manusia telah diberi kesempurnaan
Namun ... Tahukah kamu wahai kawan .......
Karena kelebihan itu manusia jadi terhinakan

Dahsyatnya Al Quran dan Sunnah

Langit dan bumi enggan memikulnya
Gunung dan lautan khawatir mengkhianatinya

Dahsyatnya Al Quran dan Sunnah

Kau Munafik ......! itu katanya ..
Kau Fasiq ~.~ itu hanya propaganda
Kau Zindiq *.* jangan termakan isunya
Bid'ah , dholim , dan sebagainya ..?! Ah biar saja ^_^ ntar jg ada akibatnya

Bukankah tiap tiap diri bertanggung jawab atas apa yang diperbuatnya..?

Beruntunglah orang yang mensucikan jiwa itu dan merugilah orang yang mengotorinya

Dahsyatnya Al Quran dan Sunnah

Bukanlah kewajibanmu menjadikan mereka mendapat petunjuk, akan tetapi Allah-lah yang memberi petunjuk memberi taufiq siapa yang dikehendaki-Nya

Ya Rabb kami, beri ampunlah kami dan saudara-saudara kami yang telah beriman lebih dulu dari kami, dan janganlah Engkau membiarkan kedengkian dalam hati kami terhadap orang-orang yang beriman; Ya Rabb kami, Sesungguhnya Engkau Maha Penyantun lagi Maha Penyayang."

Allahu Rabbi....... Laaaaaa Ilaaha Illa Anta Subhanaka Inni Kuntu Minadh dholimiin

Wallahu A'lam

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Submission To God Only

"Who relies on his money, his money will be in a small quantity Who relies on his mind, he will be lost.

Who relies on his honor or his power, he will be humiliated

Who relies on ALLAH, he will never be poor, never be lost and never be humiliated, really we are completely worthless without Allah."

 Its better not to get too attached to people because no one will remain in your life forever. one day they'll leave you whether due to distance, change or death and what will you do then ? you'll be left in pain and with the memories you have spent with your special one's. therefor, attach yourself to Allah because He is Eternal

You wish and I wish, but Allah does what He wills!

A missed opportunity is a lesson to you. You may not realize the loss immediately, but soon you will wish to take time back. In this uncertain world, you must open your eyes and ask yourself. What is most important to me. Whatever your answer is, remember every decision you make, should be in favor for the hereafter.

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Islamic Blessing Quotes

To the soul that is suffering from difficulties and hardships, to the person that is unguided, to the child that doesn't have parents, to the people who lack freedom, to the heart that needs love, to the body that needs cure, to the family that lacks shelter, to the people who lack food and water, to those who passed away, I pray to Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala for you. I pray that Allah has mercy on each one of you, that he forgives you, and that he bless you with the best of this world, and paradise in the hereafter. I pray to Allah because one day I'm going to need a prayer for myself. I pray because I'm a Muslim, and it is my duty to help all creation. I pray because its gratitude to the creator. I pray because my heart yearns to speak to Allah. I pray because I love Allah and his creation. I pray because tomorrow I may not.

"The most naive thing in my eyes is to linger in sin, with no regrets, hoping for a far off pardon and to come closer to Allah without doing anything, and waiting for the harvest of Jannah (Paradise) while planting the seeds of hellfire, and waiting for reward without performing any deeds."

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No Option Except Patience

Sometimes Allah subhana wa ta’ala (Be He Glorified) leaves us with no option except patience. More options will only come as a result of our patience, In Sha Allah (God-Willing)! 

Be thankful that you don’t already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to ? 

Be thankful when you don’t know something, for it gives you the opportunity to learn. Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow. 

Be thankful for your limitations, because they give you opportunities for improvement. Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons. 

Be thankful when you’re tired and weary, because it means you’ve made a difference. It’s easy to be thankful for the good things. A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks. Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.

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Receiving Mistake and Help to Overcome It

Receiving Mistake and Help to Overcome It  because Life is too short to worry and be concerned about one's fault but it did not help to overcome them and make their mistakes and getting in.

When you really fall in love with someone who does not expect too much, but love that you give them and when we care about someone it is best not to criticize them for their mistakes, but to help make their weaknesses into their strengths, helping to change their biggest mistake in their biggest victory receive and accept mistakes and help them cope, to accept the fact that at some point we all must make mistakes because we are human, and we can no longer be avoided we will always make mistakes.

When you truly care for someone, you do not find fault. You do not look for drawback. Conversely, against error, receive error, and ignore the reasons and begin to act to help overcome those mistakes. In order for you to give warning to a people who their fathers had never given a warning, because they were negligent.

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Things aren't always what they seem

Two traveling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guest room. Instead the angels were given a space in the cold basement. 

As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied: "Things aren't always what they seem". 

The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field. 

 

The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel, "How could you have let this happen!? The first man had everything, yet you helped him," she accused. "The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let their cow die." 

Things aren't always what they seem. "The older angel replied: When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn't find it. Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave her the cow instead. Things aren't always what they seem." 

Sometimes this is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that every outcome is always to your advantage. You might not know it until some time later. [By: Love Quotes and Saying]

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When Everything is Being Difficult

When Everything is Being Difficult Is There Any Idea For A Good Solutions 

If everything and everything was to be not easy, nothing is wasted. all the things in life that we have worked hard for everything, will become a thing in life that we will remember and appreciate at least for now, while things in life that come to us with the struggle will never end and will be a distant memory . 

Work ethic is a good indicator of the type of character you have now and will evolve in the future, and also a good indicator that someone has achieved a high level of maturity, because not everyone agrees with the fact that things are coming always easy and we are always worthy to receive it. It takes a hard worker, a worker who is willing to roll up their sleeves and not just bring up their noses in the face of adversity, to make the value of the things that they know that they must work toward a better life in an effort to make them produce anything rubbing the mean .

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Rest Yourself From Taking Care Of Your World

Rest yourself from taking care of your world, what has been accomplished by others for you, you do not need to take care of it for yourself.

"How could the liver can emit light, while in it painted a picture of the world. Or how could the heart can go to God when he was still bound by lust (desire). How the soul will have a strong desire to enter the presence of God, but their heart is not pure from negligence. Or how can hope to understand the subtle secrets, but he has not repented to make amends"

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Ask For Allah Guidance

Here’s a list of Islamic sayings and teachings, some of which are directly teachings of the Prophet Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam, and some are asserted from his honorable teachings. for those who listen to the good and beneficial words, and follow them.

Bismillah, Praise be to Allah the creator of all the creations, who is eternal and exists without a place, we ask Allah to raise the rank of Prophet Muhammad and his kind All and companions :

“Obey do as Allah wish and Allah will reward you , Keep away from prohibited things and you will be among the best of worshippers also Fear the prayer of the oppressed.”

IF words come out of the heart, they will enter the heart, but if they come from the tongue, they will not pass beyond the ears. and A donkey with a load of holy books is still a donkey , until doing four of the following :

Whatever you have in your mind - forget it;
Whatever you have in your hand - give it;
Whatever is to be your fate - face it!

Pray for what you want, but work for the things you need. and always ask for Allah Guidance

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Real Sufism In Islam Is Khidr

To enter the way of Sufism, the seeker usually begins by finding a teacher. It is the transmission of the divine light from the teacher's heart to the heart of the student, rather than of worldly knowledge transmitted from mouth to ear, that allows the adept to progress. In addition, the genuine teacher will be utterly strict in his adherence to the Divine Law.

Scholars and adherents of Sufism are unanimous in agreeing that Sufism cannot be learned through books that dubious , To reach the highest levels of success in Sufism typically requires for many many years and continues. When he believed this mission to be concluded, next job is directed him to care for others people even or animals, curing their sicknesses, cleaning their wounds, and assisting them in finding provision.

Especially when addressing more general audiences, or mixed groups of peoples, make extensive use of parable and or metaphor. Although approaches to teaching vary among different Sufi orders, Sufism as a whole is primarily concerned with direct personal experience, and as such has sometimes been compared to non-Islamic forms of mysticism.

Misconceptions in Islam about Sufism could arise due to not been able to understand / because of a misunderstanding what was delivered. Sufism clerics sometimes use language or imagery that is not easily understood by a layman.

So that people who receive about Sufism because he does not understand or because he got the knowledge from those who are not familiar with the teachings of Sufism, the bandwagon pass on to others without actual knowledge, so they make fun of Sufism and claim it as misguided and misleading alira, lack this caution will have a humiliating punishment.

Whereas true Sufism is part of Islam itself and has been exemplified in the story of Khidr (servant of Allaah) and Prophet Moses and the apostles Allaah. However, since the advent of Islamic folk literature, Khidr has become an integral part of Islamic folklore as well as Sufi literature. Looking at it with a critical modern perspective, Islamic history revolves around a great many legends and historical events that cannot be proven by modern science. 

Nevertheless, the great dynamics of Islamic history, in the view of major Muslim historians, has been the Islamic rev­elation and its historical interpretation. The goal of existence in Islam is a prophetic existence. Although prophets are not sinless, they represent the perfect human model, and embody the ultimate human quality in God’s eyes. Because of their unique role as the standard bearers of the divine-human and human-divine relationship, prophets become the special focus of human history.

Allooh Know The Best

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Sufism The Servant Of Allaah (Khidr)

Tasawwuf is the traditional Islamic science of self-improvement and spirituality (sufism), focussing on one's relationship with Allah. Tasawwuf is a branch of Islamic knowledge which focuses on the spiritual development of the Muslim. For most people Sufism is the road taken by some to be the servant of Allaah, as narrated in the story of Al Quran just look like Khidr.

One could read the Muslim Hadiths and conclude that Islam is primarily legalism that Sufiism is a large number of inter-related sects of Islam that is a reaction against this focus on rituals and practices. Orthodox Islam says little about the heart and desiring God; Sufiism says that true religion is inner truth, not outer practice. while others, says both the internal and external matter. issues of this case we can refer to al quran in the story of Khidr and Moses stunning Khidr where he performed many works of wrongdoing but nevertheless does not mean that what is done by Khidr is wrong because what is done by Khidr is on the order Allooh.

Life is full of mystery and there is a secret that we do not have enough knowledge about it. only God and His Servant Who Will be Able to explained about it.

Remember, the Sufi way is one that is accepting (not just tolerant) of all other religions, and some orders welcome non-Muslims while encouraging continued participation in one’s own faith. For others, the extraordinary discipline and focus of Islamic life may be an essential component of a new spiritual path.

Yet, to be a sufism is to choose your own commitment. Your encounter with Sufism may be no more than reading the works of Sufi Saints and the study of Sufi Philosophy to serve as simple spiritual inspiration. Whatever your circumstances, I encourage you to embrace your faith to find strength and direction in your own life. I introduce you to Sufism as a potential source of sustenance and direction along the way.

For anyone interested in mysticism, the study of Sufism is an area of riches. Mysticism in many ways provides a bridge between individual religions by exploring the experiences of personal spirituality. A good first encounter with Sufism would be through reading the quran by thinking and understanding of every verse . Certainly anyone with spiritual interests of any religion will find rewards in an exploration and further understanding of Sufism.

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Sufism Isn't A Cornerstone Of Mysticism

Sufism began as religious teachers in the Middle East came to learn the Truth of Islam directly . The most essential mystical knowledge was then passed down from each master to a disciple selected to follow as the leader of the school. Other disciples were sent out as masters to establish new schools. There is no firm historical source for Sufism. Many of the early orders were considered an integrated part of Islam, but as teachings were codified and the elements of Shi’a and Sunni Islam became more distinct, Sufism emerged with an identity. 

A cornerstone of mysticism is that true knowledge of God is achieved directly and not through an intermediary like a prophet, saint or priest. Over the centuries this has led to a great deal of political conflict between mystics and non-mystics. The individual is not in a position to disagree as long as there is no direct relationship between God and the individual. Many Sufi orders encourage honoring Saints and Prophets by visiting them if the are alive or their tombs if they have passed on. Pilgrims often will go to ask for favors in the form of miracles or prosperity. In many communities the pilgrims are people from other religions who come to the tombs in hopes of finding favor or receiving miracles.

One of the basic ideas of Sufism is to minimize the self or individual identity. Belonging to a particular group with a unique name is contradictory to this effort. It is said, “a Sufi is one who is not,” and with a philosophy that seeks the destruction of self-identity it is thought that Sufi’s received their name from outsiders. Initially the term Sufi referred only to those who had achieved God realization, but it has since come to be applied to anyone who follows that particular spiritual path. The high status afforded saints in communities influenced by Sufism implies an alternative means to communicate with God other than through the Imam, the Islamic clerics. In a fundamentalist Islamic community the highest-ranking Imam is the supreme authority, both politically and religiously, and Sufism presents a potential conflict to this authority that has over the centuries led to persecution of Sufis in several Arab countries. In some areas teachings of the Sufi masters are held in high regard practicing Sufism is discouraged or even criminalized.

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Be United Or Go Away

United we stand ; divided we fall ....So Be United As One...! or you can go away found your own way.

We (people) have learned to fly in the air like birds (plane , baloon , etc) and swim the sea like fish (snorkling), but we have not learned the simple art of living together as brothers.

Unity to be real must stand the severest strain without breaking , We will never be united as long as there are other people where remain in disagreement and strike down each other. Even The unity of freedom has never relied on uniformity of opinion , at least we must appreciate and respect the understanding of other people without having to cause debate and disagreement.

The reason why the world lacks unity, and lies broken and in heaps, is because man is disunited with himself. Unity can only be manifested by the Binary . Unity itself and the idea of Cooperation thorough conviction that nobody can get there unless everybody gets there so we must have the same idea and purpose.


The nice thing about be united as a teamwork is that you always have others on your side. Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success.

So please if you do not have the same vision and mission to work together and to help others please leave this page , I am tired looking for people which can only disturb without participating.

go away and found your own way , Men's hearts ought not to be set against one another, but set with one another, and all against evil only.

"To us Our deeds, and to You Your deeds. peace be to you. we seek not the ignorant." 28 :55

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Islam And Sufism

Some mainstream scholars of Islam define sufism as simply the name for the inner or esoteric dimension of Islam , The name Sufi comes from “suf,” the Arabic word for wool or “saf,” the Persian word for pure. The dervishes or advanced students of Sufism wore inexpensive wool clothes as part of their life of renunciation. 

Sufism has come to mean a wide range of beliefs that center on the quest for personal enlightenment in the union with God. Sufis are sometimes described as the mystics of Islam, but Sufism fits awkwardly in the categories of religions. Technically Sufism is a denomination of Islam, however there are many Sufis that are not Muslims and there are many Muslims that are reluctant to consider Sufism part of Islam.

Sufism or Taṣawwuf (Arabic: تصوّف‎) is defined by its adherents as the inner, mystical dimension of Islam. A practitioner of this tradition is generally known as a ṣūfī (صُوفِيّ). Another name for a Sufi is Dervish. "a science whose objective is the reparation of the heart and turning it away from all else but God. a science through which one can know how to travel into the presence of the Divine, purify one's inner self from filth, and beautify it with a variety of praiseworthy traits." 

Some mainstream scholars of Islam define sufism as simply the name for the inner or esoteric dimension of Islam. contended that Sufism was the esoteric aspect of Islam supported and complemented by exoteric practices and Islamic law. However,  the Sufi philosophy is universal in nature, its roots predating the rise of Islam and the other modern-day religions, save for perhaps Buddhism and Jainism; likewise, some Muslims consider Sufism outside the sphere of Islam

One of the few concepts that Sufis seem to agree on is that all religions offer a path to salvation or enlightenment and that true God realization, no matter how it is achieved, transcends the limitations and classification of any religion.

Basically, a saint in any religion is equal to a saint in any other religion because they are inspired by the same Divine source. Initially the term Sufi referred only to those who had achieved God realization, but it has since come to be applied to anyone who follows that particular spiritual path.

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