When The Heart Can't Express

Realizing That You Don't Need Certain People , There's a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it's not giving up, it's realizing that you don't need certain people and their crap.

There are always going to be certain people within our lives that will slow us down from our forward progression if we choose to allow them to do so. Instead of trying to fix everything the way that they want it to be in life, that they have to work with life the way that it is, and even work with variables that they would rather not work with.

It is not about giving up on people, but it is more about being able to tell the difference between giving up and moving on, and stopping others from preventing their own lives to blossom. As the quote states there is a point in many people's lives that they must realize that instead of chasing the ones who ignore them, that they must love the ones who love them completely. Not everything in life is for you, and not every situation is for you to fix, sometimes you must let things be, move on, and learn how to let go.

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Ask Him To Heal Your Heart

Sometimes it is hard to go on with life because it all seems so blurry and so meaningless. It hurts to not enjoy what you loved the most, to always feel so empty inside, to forever be lonely even though you're surrounded by many who love you. Oh, how you wish people actually saw what was inside of you, how you wish they could read your mind and comfort your aching heart, but you feel all alone in this strange state of painful emotions and heartache. It feels as though there is an actual void in your heart--one you never knew existed.

The worst thing about this is that you cannot ever remember the last time you ever had a genuine smile and felt happy. Most often you break down in tears yet you don't know or understand why your tears flow uncontrollably.

This pain you're going through is so unbearable yet you choose to go through it alone because you do not wish to worry those you love. So, you struggle to fake your smile, to fake your laughter and to fake who you used to be. Often you seclude yourself so the need to "fake" anything does not rise---however, you really want this out of your system and would love someone to talk to, someone to lend you a shoulder to really cry on, someone to give you a comforting hug and tell you its going to be alright.

The reality is though, people look at you but they never see the pain you hide inside. You ask "Am I really good at faking or do people just ignore me? or Is there anyone who could ever see through my eyes and see the scars in my heart?"

The answer is YES....there is someone who sees your every pain, hears your silent cries, and works very hard to heal your heart. Its no other but the one who created you from dust and the one you shall return to. Allaah ta'ala is closer to you than anyone and He can help you through anything. You just have to completely trust His divine help and give your heart to him.

I know its hard to do that part because of feeling empty within, but know that help is only with Allaah, so if it hurts too much, be close to Him, talk to Him through your prayers and let His divine words heal you. Also know that you're not alone in this state of depression and loneliness. Dont be afraid to talk to someone you trust , even if it means that person sees your weakness through the tears! Don't ever be scared of putting your feeling out there because concealing your pain only makes it worse

If all fails, keep a journal and write away all that pain , trust me you're going to lose so many tears and will not be able to finish a page, but by the time you're done, you're going to feel a lot better insha'Allah and always make dua to Allaah and ask Him to heal your heart!

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It is not about where you begin but where you END

There’s no person in the Dunya who is capable of handling every punch that is thrown at them. We aren’t made that way. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble & fall. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly overcome problems. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, & solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.


The hereafter is your destination and serves as a reminder that you should live in this world with right actions and speech. You should enjoy this life, but you should never forget your ultimate destination. Accept the fact that this life is short and you don't know when its goign to end. Start living for Allah by worshiping him and doing good deeds. I promise, you will enjoy this life with a sense of purpose, and you will seek the hereafter with right actions and speech In Sha Allah!

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Indeed, It Will Meet You

Upon Her Return

There was a young man in Damascus who planned to leave his country to study. His mother was very caring and supportive of him. She raised him alone through toil and hardship. And, at last, she felt that after all the hard work--she was proud of her son as any mother would.

"Ah! The joys of motherhood!" she said to hersel...f. The pleasure of staring at this little man, who once held onto her dress begging to be carried and to be tightly clenched by her arms. She recalled the days when he was small and helpless, and yet there he was--embarking on a journey to be the man he was raised to be.

The young man's flight was scheduled to leave early in the morning, thus his mother prepared food and all that was needed for this long trip. Her acts of kindness and loyalty displayed his mother endearing love for him. His excitement as a young man, and her hopefulness as a proud mother, is something we can all relate to.

That morning, she heard over the news that there was a storm headed their way. Out of fear that her son might die on this journey, she decided not to wake him. Instead she left early for the market hoping to surprise him with his favorite food later that morning.

Upon her return, she called out his name in anticipation and excitement--for she had a few more days with him before he would continue on with this journey. But to no avail, there was no response from him. Allah had taken his soul away and he died in his sleep that morning. Story obtained from Al Qaseem Newspaper.

Say, "Indeed, the death from which you flee - indeed, it will meet you. Then you will be returned to the Knower of the unseen and the witnessed, and He will inform you about what you used to do."

Surat Al-Jumu`ah: 8

IIQ

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I Don't Wanna Know , I Don't Wanna See

I'll go ahead and pour myself a drink
I really couldn't care less what you think
Well I don't have to listen now
Live this day down

If I can't feel a thing You might as well save your goodbyes
We can give this train wreck one last ride
If I don't make things right
I'll tell you one last time

I don't wanna know it's over , So save your goodbye kiss
I don't wanna know it's over , Cause ignorance is bliss
I can hardly see What's in front of me
Cause the vodka's running on empty
I can't stay sober, If it's over

I woke up with my heartbeat in my head
I reached for the bottle by the bed
I saw your side was not slept in
Cold sheets again

Remind me of what you said
We need to take a break for a while
It's been so long since I smiled

Don’t Tell Me, I Don’t Want to Know

UNLESS you are my best friend or my husband, I don’t need to know the macabre symptoms of your gastrointestinal virus. I don’t need to know about how much candy anyone, other than me, has eaten.

There are things I’d rather just not know about you.

Yet I, like most people, have become inundated with Too Much Information about the people I know and the people I wish I didn’t know but am now acquainted with. It’s as if we’re all trapped at a permanent reunion with everyone we ever bumped into at a street fair or waved to mistakenly in the cafeteria.

“The entire world has become this Dickensian series in which you are not visited by three ghosts but by eight million ghosts,” said Sloane Crosley, author of “How Did You Get This Number.” “I feel as if I see things about people that I don’t necessarily want to see, and then it’s lodged like a piece of corn in my subconscious.”

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Go ahead now

Honesty, Humor, Friendliness, Confidence, Integrity, Persistence, Humility, Goal Setter, Decisive, Hard Worker, Learner, Positive Mental Attitude, Compassionate, Disciplined, Dedicated, Faithful, Dependable, Knowledgeable, Communicator, Loving, Enthusiastic, Motivated, Patient, Loyal, Organized, Good Listener, Empathetic, Self-Respect, Common Sense, and Character.

Go ahead now..... Look yourself in the mirror
and claim these qualities!
Do it for several weeks and you’ll notice a change in your life.

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Islamic Blessing Quotes

When some blessings come to you have a faith and believe that all will be fine

When you wish someone joy, you wish them peace, love, prosperity, happiness…all the good things.

God will not permit any troubles to come upon us, unless He has a specific plan by which great blessing can come out of the difficulty

Blessed is he who has learned to admire but not envy, to follow but not imitate, to praise but not flatter, and to lead but not manipulate.

Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play, and you will finally be able to move forward the life that God intended for you with grace, strength, courage, and confidence

Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings. And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it. You must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it.

There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction. I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body and life and money and energy with. I can select what I can read and eat and study. I can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life-whether I will see them as curses or opportunities. I can choose my words and the tone of voice in which I speak to others. And most of all, I can choose my thoughts.

God disguised as myriad things, and playing a game of tag has kissed you and said, "You're it. I mean you're really it. Now it does not matter what you believe or feel. For something wonderful, something major-league wonderful, is someday going to happen."

Blessed are the single-hearted, for they shall enjoy much peace. If you refuse to be hurried and pressed, if you stay your soul on God, nothing can keep you from that clearness of spirit which is life and peace. In that stillness you will know what His will is.

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My heart is soft, so don’t break it

I have taken your hand hoping that you will treat me like a princess. My heart is soft, so don’t break it with harsh words.

As you know women are made of irregular rib, I might not be perfect.

Don’t let me as I’m because I might become a loser. And also don’t try to make me

erect at once because I might break. Try to handle me smoothly Insha Allah I’ll be ok.

As you are my better half, always try to be better In sha Allah, that will give me the impression that you are the best husband in the world. Don’t blame me for my small mistakes. Forget them and forgive me. If you see any mistakes in me, please don’t point out them in front others. Make me recognize them with kind words.

Don’t describe about other ladies with me, because that might make me envy. Compliment me if I do anything that pleases you. If I want to talk to you please listen them carefully. That will give me an impression that you are there to care for me.

Some times I might lost my patience and I might turn wild, at that times kindly make me to recognize that I was wrong. If I demand you for little things, try to fulfill them if you can. If you can’t, explain me kindly. In sha Allah I will understand.

Understand me when no one does. That will give me hope in life. At least spend some hours to know how I feel.

In short be a mother when I’m sick.

Be father when I’m in need.

Be a brother when I want to share.

Be a best friend when I want to talk.

Hold my hands and take me in the path of Jannah! In sha Allah!

Let’s live as an exemplary couple, as another Muhammedh (sal) and Kadheeja (Rali).

And let us live as husband and wife even in Jannathul Firdous In sha Allah.

-Your future wife-

With lots and lots of love!!!

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Never Stop Praying

You should never stop praying to your creator because when you pray, its a form of worship, when you remember him, its gratitude, when you seek his help, its praise, and when you trust him, you are surrendering to his will. Trust Allah, and seek his help, because through his help and guidance success is guaranteed. Remember, prayer is the best armor against all trials. 

"Even Sometimes what we need and what we want are not the same. Learn to trust God's choices for you, because God didn't give what you want but what you need"

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The Day We Get Married

As women, the day we get married our order of priority and obedience changes. We used to be obedient to Allah, subhanallana wa taala, and our parents. After marriage, we are obedient to our Allah, subhaana wa taala, and our husbands. Our good company is best rewarded with our husbands. But for our husbands, it does not change. His obedience and after Allah, azza wa jal, is to his mother, then his father, and then his wife.

It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: A man came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, “O Messenger of Allaah, who among people is most deserving of my good company?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Then your father.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5626; Muslim, 2548)

Sisters, rake in the rewards by encouraging your husband to fulfill his mother's rights! Encourage your husband to spend time with his mother. Encourage your husband to call her often, to visit her, take her gifts, thank her, show his love and appreciation. And when he is doing well by his mother, encourage him towards his father... but not in equal measure. You will gain rewards from your intention, from your husbands good actions, from your husband's mother's pleasure, from your husband's father's pleasure, from enjoining the good, and being a strong support to your fellow Muslims.

May Allah, the One who opens hearts, open our hearts and minds to all the chances of reward that are available to us and within our influence - ameen.

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Like a shadow

This dunya (world) is like a shadow, run after it and you will never be able to catch it, turn your back against it and it has no choice but to follow you - Ibn al-Qayyim

Be thankful for the bad things in life, for they opened your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before. Be thankful to Allah, for he has been guiding you all along. Always be thankful to Allah, because you have much to be thankful for..!

If Allah blesses you with knowledge, you are required to shared it with everyone. Remember, Allah does not bless anybody with knowledge, he blesses those who are worthy and honest. This very blessing can be a test from Allah s.w.t. Take a minute to think of why you know some things that others don't. Is that message just for you, or for all humanity. If the answer is for all humanity, you are under Allah's obligation. You must share it with everyone, In Sha Allah!

O my Lord! Open the ears of our hearts for Your remembrance And keep us in the world on the destinations of your blessings.

Ya Allah! make us to fear you forever so much so that we get to meet You, and make the piety our provisions for journey, and to Your obedience be our efforts get served, And on You we are confide and have trust, and give an end to our lives with fortune and pleasure.

Ameen Ya Allah.

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Semua Hal Ada Pada Diri Kita Sendiri

Terkadang hal-hal yang awal mulanya baik bisa menjadi berantakan ditengah jalan namun pada akhirnya akan menjadi semakin lebih baik ketika beberapa hal yang telah terjatuh bersama-sama. Kadang-kadang hal yang  telah terjadi dalam hidup kita supaya terlihat berkualitas, menjadi semakin berantakan. Banyak kali dalam saat-saat yang baik dalam hidup kita berserakan namun kita tidak dapat melihat bahwa pada akhirnya segalanya akan lebih baik dari mereka saat ini, kita hanya dapat melihat rasa sakit yang kita mungkin mengalaminya di suatu saat namun pada akhirnya segalanya akan menjadi lebih baik.

Alih-alih khawatir tentang apa yang kita lakukan di masa lalu, dan apa yang kita harus melepaskannya pergi, kita malah harus khawatir tentang menjalani kehidupan disetiap harinya sebanyak yang kita mungkin dapat melakukannya. Kita harus menjaga sikap bahwa pertumbuhan terus-menerus jauh lebih baik daripada berdiri diam dan bahwa meskipun ada beberapa hal dalam hidup yang bisa pecah, berserakan , berjatuhan maka kita harus membuat pilihan untuk lebih baik membiarkan hidup kita hancur berantakan, atau untuk mencoba dan membuat diri kita lebih kuat dari apa kita alami.

Dan kesemuanya adalah ada pada pilihan dan tindakan yang kita akan kita ambil dan kita lakukan.

karena 

"Sesungguhnya Allah tidak merobah keadaan sesuatu kaum sehingga mereka merobah keadaan yang ada pada diri mereka sendiri"

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Creature on earth

When Allah created me, he breathed his blessings into me, and everyday, I realize more that everything I do is the Miracle of Allah S.W.T. Thank you Allah![F.D]

There is not a moving living creature on earth, nor a bird that flies with its two wings, but are communities like you. We have neglected nothing in the Book, then unto their Lord they all shall be gathered. [Qur'an 6:38]

Plants grow in plain, not rocky, lands. In the same way, wisdom will grow in the hearts of the modest, not the arrogant, because Allah has made modesty the instrument of the mind and made arrogance the instrument of ignorance. [Imam Musa Kazim]

Many people are dead despite the fact that they are alive. They have no clue as to the purpose of life, and they do nothing for themselves or for others. They are living in ignorance. Lets be thankful to Allah s.w.t for the gift of Islam; Praise be to Allah!

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Dark Souls Curse

يَوْمَ تُقَلَّبُ وُجُوهُهُمْ فِي النَّارِ يَقُولُونَ يَا لَيْتَنَا أَطَعْنَا اللَّهَ وَأَطَعْنَا الرَّسُولا

وَقَالُوا رَبَّنَا إِنَّا أَطَعْنَا سَادَتَنَا وَكُبَرَاءَنَا فَأَضَلُّونَا السَّبِيلا

رَبَّنَا آتِهِمْ ضِعْفَيْنِ مِنَ الْعَذَابِ وَالْعَنْهُمْ لَعْنًا كَبِيرًا

"on the Day when their faces will be turned over In the Fire, they will say: "Oh, would that we had obeyed Allâh and obeyed the Messenger (Muhammad Sal-Allaahu 'alayhe Wa Sallam)." and they will say: "Our Lord! Verily, we obeyed Our chiefs and Our great ones, and they misled us from the Right way. Our Lord! give them double torment and Curse them with a mighty curse!"

At the Day that their faces will be turned upside down In the fire, They will say: "Woe to us! would that we had obeyed Allah and obeyed the Messenger." and They would say: "Our Lord! we obeyed Our Chiefs and Our great ones, and They misled us As to the right path. "Our Lord! give them double penalty and curse them with a very great Curse!"

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Blessing In the hand of god

Blessing is in The hands of god Allah The Almighty ,

Allâh! Lâ ilâha illa Huwa (none has the Right to be worshipped but He), the ever living, the one who sustains and protects All that exists. neither slumber, nor sleep overtake Him. to Him belongs whatever is In the heavens and whatever is on earth. who is He that can intercede with Him except with his Permission? He knows what happens to them (his creatures) In This world, and what will happen to them In the Hereafter . and they will never compass anything of his knowledge except that which He wills. his Kursî extends over the heavens and the earth, and He feels no fatigue In guarding and preserving them. and He is the Most High, the Most Great. [This Verse 2:255 is called Ayat-ul-Kursî.]

"The best of people are those that bring most benefit to the rest of mankind”

blessing quotes

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Motivational Quotes

Failure is not falling down ; failure is staying down when you have the choice to get back up. ~.~

A great relationship is not when you never fight. It's that whenever you fight and you learn something.

The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets. The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears and the kindest hearts have felt the most pain. . .~.~


One must never shed the mighty spirit to start afresh. It's never too late. Rise, shine & fly. In this life, it’s not what you hope for, it’s not what you deserve – it’s what you take!

Whenever you feel its just not your day, remember, its one of the games that our mind plays, sit down, relax, and try to sincerely pray, and push all your worries far, far away.

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allahu akbar

Allâh it is He who has subjected to You the sea, that ships may sail through it by his Command, and that You may seek of his Bounty, and that You may be thankful / Grateful

"Say: He is Allah, the one and Only; Allah, the Eternal, Absolute; He begetteth not, nor is He begotten; and there is none like unto Him"

Allahu Akbar

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Bleessing Quotes

I will seek knowledge until I enter the grave. I believe that there are many paths to the same place, and that is a belief that there is a higher power, a belief that we are connected as a people."

Indeed the least that is binding upon the recipient of favor is that it not be used to disobey its Bestower. Indeed blessings are attained through gratitude and gratitude is related to increase and these two are linked so that increase from Allah does not diminish until gratitude from the servant diminishes.

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Islamic Prayer Quotation

"Our Lord! Condemn us not if we forget or fall into error; Our Lord! Lay not on us a burden like that which Thou Didst Lay on those before us; Our Lord! Lay not on us a burden greater than we have strength to bear. Blot out Our sins, and grant us Forgiveness. have Mercy on us. Thou art Our Protector; help us against those who stand against faith."

"Our Lord! avert from us the torment of Hell. Verily! its torment is ever an inseparable, permanent punishment." Our Lord! Pour out on us patience, and Cause us to die as Muslims."

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Patience Quotes

153. O You who believe! seek help In patience and As-Salât (the prayer). Truly! Allâh is with As-Sâbirin (the patient ones, etc.). 154. and Say not of those who are killed In the Way of Allâh, "They are dead." Nay, they are living, but You perceive (it) not. 155. and Certainly, we shall test You with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Sâbirin (the patient ones, etc.). 156. Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: "Truly! to Allâh we belong and Truly, to Him we shall return." 157. they are those on whom are the Salawât (i.e. blessings, etc.) (i.e. who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (They are those who) receive his Mercy, and it is they who are the guided-ones.

The Cow (153 - 157)

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اسْتَعِينُوا بِالصَّبْرِ وَالصَّلاةِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ (١٥٣) وَلا تَقُولُوا لِمَنْ يُقْتَلُ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ أَمْوَاتٌ بَلْ أَحْيَاءٌ وَلَكِنْ لا تَشْعُرُونَ (١٥٤) وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُمْ بِشَيْءٍ مِنَ الْخَوْفِ وَالْجُوعِ وَنَقْصٍ مِنَ الأمْوَالِ وَالأنْفُسِ وَالثَّمَرَاتِ وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ (١٥٥) الَّذِينَ إِذَا أَصَابَتْهُمْ مُصِيبَةٌ قَالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ (١٥٦) أُولَئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَاتٌ مِنْ رَبِّهِمْ وَرَحْمَةٌ وَأُولَئِكَ هُمُ الْمُهْتَدُونَ (١٥٧

153. O ye who believe! seek help with patient perseverance and prayer; for Allah is with those who patiently persevere. 154. and say not of those who are slain In the way of Allah. "they are dead." Nay, They are living, though ye perceive (it) not. 155. be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss In goods or lives or the Fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere, 156. who say, when afflicted with calamity: "To Allah we belong, and to Him is Our return":- 157. They are those on whom (Descend) blessings from Allah, and Mercy, and They are the ones that receive guidance.

The Cow (153 - 157)

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